Author name: Paul Darr

Paul Darr has lived in California, Oregon, Wyoming, Colorado, Nebraska, and currently lives in San Antonio, Texas. Paul is also an Army Veteran, who has deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan. On the political spectrum Paul is a Classical Liberal and member of the Libertarian Party. Paul is currently employed as an IT Manager and is a father of a handsome boy and beautiful daughter. In his free time Paul enjoys reading, using and modifying open source software, gaming, and several other geeky pursuits.

Jesus Christ and the Power of the Atonement: Forgiveness

I have written out my talk from Church last last week to be a full post here on my blog.

Brothers and Sisters,

I am grateful for the opportunity to speak today about one of the most powerful gifts our Savior, Jesus Christ, has given us—the ability to forgive. Forgiveness, both of others and of ourselves, is central to the Atonement of Jesus Christ and is essential for our peace and happiness.

I would like to begin by sharing a little bit about my family.

I have a son, Joseph, who is a smart and normally quiet kid. He loves playing the drums and computer games. Then there’s Abigail, who is outgoing and energetic. She loves making friends and playing games. My wife, Sarah, and I met in high school. She plays the piano, sings beautifully, and teaches fourth grade. Sarah has a strong testimony of the gospel, and she helps me become a better person. Her kindness, maturity, and love have been a blessing in my life.

As for myself, I have had a variety of life experiences—some wonderful, some difficult. I’ve been an abused child in foster care, a missionary, a soldier, a car washer, a school librarian, and I currently work in IT. In the Church, I have served in many capacities, including Young Men’s President, Elders Quorum President, Service Men’s Group Leader, Sunday School Teacher, and now as a finance clerk.

Through my experiences, I have learned that life brings both joy and hardship. People will hurt us, sometimes intentionally, sometimes unknowingly. The world teaches us that holding onto anger and resentment is justified, but the gospel of Jesus Christ teaches a higher law—the law of forgiveness.

Forgiving Others

President Russell M. Nelson has said:

“Forgiveness is not just a one-time act but a continuous process that requires patience, compassion, and understanding. It is not always easy to forgive those who have hurt you. You can receive strength from Jesus Christ.”

We all experience pain caused by others. Whether it is a harsh word, a betrayal, or a deep personal wound, the Savior has taught us how to respond. In Matthew 5:44, Christ said:

“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.”

President Nelson also warned us that, while forgiveness is difficult, holding onto grudges is harmful:

“There is nothing easy about forgiving those who have disappointed us, hurt us, cheated us, or spread false rumors about us. However, not forgiving others is poison for us. Grudges weigh us down. Angry disagreements separate us. Animosity and hatred can divide families.”

Jesus Christ suffered for all of us, not just so that we can repent, but also so that we can find healing. Through His Atonement, He can take away our burdens, including the pain we feel from others’ actions.

I have seen firsthand the power of letting go of anger. When we hold onto resentment, it only harms us. But when we turn to Christ, He helps us release that burden. As we choose to forgive, we invite peace and healing into our lives.

Forgiving Ourselves

Sometimes, the hardest person to forgive is ourselves.

The Lord has reassured us in Doctrine and Covenants 19:16:

“For behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent.”

This does not mean we are free to do whatever we want without consequences. Rather, it means that once we have repented, we should move forward in faith and not dwell on past mistakes.

Modern science even supports the importance of self-forgiveness. Dr. Andrea Brandt, a licensed therapist, wrote:

“Acknowledge that not everyone is self-aware or empathetic enough to admit they’ve done something wrong. Appreciate that you’re the kind of person who can recognize your faults and mistakes and say, ‘I did this; I am responsible.’ You’ve done something wrong, yes, but at your core, you are a good person.”

Dwelling on past mistakes only leads to misery. The adversary wants us to feel unworthy, to believe that we are beyond God’s love. But this is a lie. The scriptures teach us:

“But as oft as they repented and sought forgiveness, with real intent, they were forgiven.” (Moroni 6:8)

God does not hold grudges against His children. He does not want us to remain burdened by guilt. He desires that we repent, forgive ourselves, and move forward with faith in Christ. When God forgives, it is as though the sin never happened.

Jesus Christ: The Source of Forgiveness

Ultimately, forgiveness—whether of others or of ourselves—is possible because of Jesus Christ. He has already paid the price for all sin, pain, and suffering. He stands ready to help us heal.

President Nelson testified:

“Jesus Christ is risen. He loves you. And because of Him, you can experience the joy and miracle of forgiveness.”

Brothers and sisters, I know that through Jesus Christ, we can be freed from the chains of resentment, guilt, and pain. I have felt His love in my own life, and I testify that He is always there, ready to lift us. I encourage each of us to examine our hearts. Is there someone we need to forgive? Do we need to forgive ourselves?

Let us turn to the Savior. He will guide us. He will heal us. And through Him, we will find peace.

I bear my testimony that Jesus Christ lives. He loves us. His Atonement is real. Through Him, we can receive forgiveness and extend it to others.

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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We need to hold Trump to his pledge to Free Silk Road Founder Ross Ulbricht

During a past campaign speech, Donald Trump made a significant pledge: to release on day one of his Presidency Ross Ulbricht, the founder of Silk Road, who is currently serving a life sentence in federal prison for facilitating drug transactions. From a libertarian standpoint, the idea of imprisoning someone for enabling consensual exchanges among adults is inherently flawed. Ulbricht’s harsh punishment should raise concerns even among supporters of the war on drugs.

Before Ulbricht’s sentencing, his lawyer made a compelling argument: Silk Road was not a more dangerous version of traditional drug markets but, in many ways, the most responsible one ever created. Despite this, U.S. District Judge Katherine Forrest was not persuaded. Yet, Silk Road did offer significant consumer protections, such as reducing the risks of arrest, black-market violence, and scams through an escrow system.

The platform also provided a measure of quality assurance for drugs, as vendors risked losing business or being removed for low ratings. Additionally, Silk Road fostered a supportive community where users could safely share information, avoiding the typical dangers of street purchases. However, Judge Forrest interpreted these benefits as exacerbating Ulbricht’s crimes, arguing that the site made drug use easier and safer, thereby encouraging it.

Ulbricht’s life sentence, especially for a first-time, nonviolent drug offense, seems excessively harsh, particularly when others involved with the site received more lenient sentences. Although the government accused Ulbricht of commissioning murders, these allegations were never proven and did not feature in his charges. Nonetheless, they heavily influenced his sentencing.

Ulbricht’s libertarian philosophy further played a role in his severe punishment. Judge Forrest saw his belief in the right to defy drug laws as a dangerous aggravating factor. His stance on personal freedom and opposition to drug prohibition were viewed as threatening to the established legal system.

Criticism of Ulbricht’s sentence has come from various political and legal corners. Prominent figures, including Ken Starr—who previously upheld a life sentence for drug possession—have called for clemency, recognizing the injustice in Ulbricht’s case.

As Trump begins his second term, his promise to release Ulbricht, who has already served 11 years, is a step toward justice. This move should be welcomed by anyone who believes in proportionate punishment, and we need to hold him to his promise of completing this on the first day of his Presidency.

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Random thought today: Forest Fires and Air National Guard

The US Air National Guard should consider standardizing the use of the Air Tractor AT-802 as a versatile platform. This aircraft could serve multiple roles, such as firefighting and search and rescue during peacetime, as well as armed reconnaissance, close air support, or ground attack during wartime. Originally designed as a crop duster, the AT-802 has evolved into various variants, thanks to its tough and reliable airframe. Most notably, it has been adopted by SOCOM as the Skywarden for armed reconnaissance. Adopting this platform in a standard configuration would allow highly trained pilots to maintain valuable skills that are applicable both at home and in combat scenarios.

The ongoing forest fires underscore the potential value of having assets like the AT-802 in the Air National Guard’s arsenal. In the face of such natural disasters, the Guard could effectively deploy a fleet of these aircraft to “battle” the fires, providing a critical resource for the nation. Critics may argue that propeller-driven planes like the AT-802 are ineffective against near-peer adversaries in wartime, but these planes would still be invaluable in missions that don’t require advanced aircraft. Their rugged design and lower cost make them suitable for many military operations where high-tech solutions aren’t necessary.

As the focus increasingly shifts toward expensive next-generation aircraft, the AT-802 presents a practical solution for emergency missions at home and offers a cost-effective alternative for certain military roles. Its adoption could help stretch budgets while addressing various needs effectively.

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To my friends in the Libertarian Party

The constant negativity among my friends in the Libertarian Party has become a troubling trend that is doing more harm than good. While it’s understandable to have frustrations and concerns, this persistent culture of pessimism is not only unhelpful but also counterproductive. It undermines the party’s goals, alienates potential supporters, and demoralizes its own members. It’s time we recognize this pattern for what it is and commit to replacing it with a culture of optimism, constructive action, and determination.

No one is denying that there are serious problems within the Party. These concerns are real and valid. However, the way they are being communicated is where the breakdown occurs. Instead of offering solutions or working toward meaningful change, too often these frustrations are expressed in a way that feels directionless and counterproductive. Pointing out problems without presenting a plan for fixing them serves little purpose beyond venting. Worse still, this negativity is frequently injected into conversations where it does not belong. Shoe-horning grievances into unrelated topics doesn’t amplify the message; it dilutes it, alienating both allies and neutral observers who might otherwise be receptive to the party’s ideas.

The consequences of this negativity are significant. For starters, it drains the morale of party members. When people feel surrounded by pessimism, it’s hard to remain motivated or hopeful. If the message they constantly hear is that the Libertarian Party is broken, hopeless, or failing, why would anyone want to invest their time, energy, or support into it? This environment doesn’t inspire action; it fosters apathy and resignation. Those who might otherwise step up and contribute may instead step back, discouraged by the rhetoric and unsure of where to focus their efforts.

Negativity also alienates neutral individuals or those who are still forming their opinions. Whether at events, in conversations, or on social media, a barrage of complaints and criticism does not make the party look like a viable or inspiring option. Instead, it creates the impression of disarray, further reinforcing skepticism from outsiders. Worse still, this kind of rhetoric strengthens opposition. When we air our frustrations in such an unproductive way, we make it easier for opponents to dismiss us. They don’t need to challenge our ideas or values because we’re already doing the work of undermining ourselves.

So how do we change this? First, we need to shift our mindset. It’s time to replace this culture of pessimism with a culture of optimism and action. Optimism does not mean ignoring problems or pretending everything is fine. Instead, it means recognizing challenges while maintaining faith that meaningful change is possible. Optimism is what motivates people to roll up their sleeves and get to work. It inspires confidence, attracts supporters, and creates momentum. If we want to see progress, we need to believe that it can happen—and then take the steps to make it happen.

This leads to the second point: we need to focus on solutions, not just problems. When you identify an issue within the party, don’t stop there. Think about what can be done to fix it. Communicate your concerns in a way that is constructive and actionable. Offer ideas, propose strategies, and be willing to collaborate with others to implement them. Complaints on their own may spark frustration, but solutions inspire action. The more we focus on building pathways forward, the more energy we’ll create for real change.

Finally, we need to put in the work. Talking about change is not enough, action is required. There is so much work to be done within the Libertarian Party, from local organizing to outreach, education, and advocacy. Instead of sitting on the sidelines and complaining, we need to dig in and commit to the work. If we truly care about the issues we’re raising, then we need to step up and be part of the solution. Change doesn’t happen overnight, but it doesn’t happen at all if we don’t take that first step.

It’s time to ask ourselves: What kind of party do we want to be? Do we want to be known for our constant infighting and complaints, or do we want to be a party that inspires people with a vision for change? Do we want to push people away with negativity, or do we want to attract supporters with a message of hope, determination, and progress?

We have a choice to make. The problems we face are real, but so are the opportunities before us. We can sit back and complain, or we can rise up and work for the change we want to see. Let’s choose optimism. Let’s choose action. Let’s be the agents of change our party, and our principles, deserve.

 

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